What are you Attracted to Most in the Same/Opposite Sex? Are you More for Looks, or Personality?
The way I put it, as many others do, is that looks will attract me. I’m not gonna lie, I’m a total sucker for a gorgeous face. But if the brains that come with that face have gone rotten, then there’s no reason to stick around. And that has totally happened before, where I was completely turned off by the complete lack of click beyond an attractive face. I like to feel that whomever I’m talking with has to have some intelligence, wit, or playfulness, so that the fleeting flirtations, charming back-and-forths, are more interesting and riveting. There’s something in words that is very attractive. Don’t know if it’s what I’m MOST attracted to, per se, but if that personality shines bright, then it’ll definitely keep me around. I’d rather have something more permanent and fulfilling than something that is shallow and temporary.
-J
